122. My Honest Thoughts on AI Podcasting, Authenticity, and Ethics

122. My Honest Thoughts on AI Podcasting, Authenticity, and Ethics

AI is changing podcasting fast. That is not even up for debate anymore. What is still very much up for discussion is how we, as creators, choose to use it.

Some people are all-in and automating everything. Some people are avoiding it completely. Most of us are somewhere in the middle, trying to figure out how to use it in a way that actually helps our work without flattening our voice or disconnecting us from what makes our content human.

That is where I am right now.

I have been in the podcasting space for over 21 years, and I have watched every major shift you can imagine. From early audio blogging days, to the rise of iTunes, to the social media explosion that changed how we promote content, to now, where AI is sitting in the middle of almost every creative conversation.

And I want to share my honest perspective, not as someone chasing trends, but as someone who is actively using these tools every week in real time.

This is not a hype conversation. This is a grounded one.

Let’s talk about AI podcasting, ethics, and authenticity.


AI is a tool, not a replacement

One of the biggest shifts I had to make mentally was this: AI is not here to replace my thinking. It is here to support it.

That distinction matters more than people realize.

I see a lot of creators using AI in a way that skips the thinking process entirely. They are asking it to generate ideas, write scripts, create posts, and essentially do the entire creative process for them.

And while that might feel efficient, something important gets lost in that process.

Your voice.

Your discernment.

Your lived experience.

Your ability to decide what actually matters.

For me, AI is a tool I use to support my work, not something that replaces my creative responsibility.

I still have to think. I still have to decide. I still have to bring my voice into everything that gets published.

Because if I do not, the content might be polished, but it will not be mine.


The problem with AI right now

Let’s be honest. There is a lot of noise in the AI space right now.

There are endless tools, endless tutorials, and a constant pressure to automate everything so you can “scale faster.”

But here is what I have noticed.

A lot of content created with AI right now is starting to sound the same.

It is clean. It is structured. It is technically correct.

But it often lacks depth. It lacks personality. It lacks the human fingerprints that make content feel lived in.

And I think part of that is because people are skipping the most important step: clarity.

If you do not know what you think, AI will not fix that for you. It will just organize your confusion faster.

That is why I always come back to intention.

Why am I using this tool?

What part of my process actually needs support?

Where do I still need to stay fully engaged?

Those questions matter more than the tool itself.


How I actually use AI in my podcast workflow

Let me make this practical and real for you, because I do use AI regularly in my podcasting workflow. But I use it in very specific ways.

1. Brainstorming and outlines with ChatGPT

I use ChatGPT as a thinking partner.

This is where I go when I am trying to get unstuck or when I want to explore different angles for an episode.

Sometimes I will take a rough idea and ask it to help me expand it or structure it. Sometimes I just brainstorm out loud.

But I am very intentional here.

I am not letting it define my message. I am using it to sharpen what I already sense I want to say.

It helps me move faster, but I am still driving the direction.


2. Writing and expanding content with Claude

Once I have my direction, I often use Claude to help me flesh things out.

This is where I might take an outline and ask it to help me organize my thoughts more clearly or expand certain sections into full ideas.

It is especially helpful when I am building podcast scripts or trying to turn scattered thoughts into something structured.

But again, I do not just copy and paste.

I read it. I adjust it. I rewrite parts of it. I bring my tone back into it.

Because the goal is not efficiency alone.

The goal is clarity that still sounds like me.


3. Deep research and source-based thinking with NotebookLM

One of the most interesting tools I have started using is NotebookLM.

This is different because it allows me to work directly from my own materials.

So instead of pulling random information from the internet, I can upload things like:

  • past podcast episodes
  • notes
  • outlines
  • blog posts

And then ask it to analyze my own content.

I use it to:

  • compare themes across episodes
  • identify patterns in what I have already taught
  • deepen my understanding of my own work

This is powerful because it keeps me grounded in my actual voice and not just external information.

It also helps reduce one of the biggest risks with AI, which is misinformation or “hallucinated” answers.

When I am working from my own content, I know the foundation is solid.


AI should expand your thinking, not replace it

One thing I have learned quickly is that AI is most powerful when it expands your thinking, not when it replaces it.

If I rely on it too heavily, my content starts to feel generic.

But when I use it well, it helps me:

  • clarify ideas faster
  • see angles I might have missed
  • structure my thoughts more effectively

It becomes a support system, not a decision-maker.

And that difference is everything.


My concerns about AI as a creator

I also want to be honest about my concerns, because I do not think this conversation should be one-sided.

There are three things I think about often:

1. Ethics and accountability

We are still learning how to use these tools responsibly.

Who is accountable for the content being created?

How do we ensure accuracy?

How do we avoid spreading misinformation or overly polished but empty content?

These are real questions, and I do not think we have all the answers yet.


2. Authenticity and voice

The more AI-generated content we consume, the more everything starts to sound the same.

That is where creators need to be careful.

If we are not actively protecting our voice, we risk blending into a sea of sameness.

Your voice is not just your words. It is your perspective, your lived experience, and your discernment.

AI cannot replace that.


3. Environmental impact and responsibility

This is something I think more people need to talk about.

AI systems require significant energy to run. That has an environmental cost.

So even as we use these tools, I think we also need awareness.

Not fear. Not avoidance.

But awareness.

We should be asking:

  • How often am I using this?
  • Am I using it intentionally?
  • Am I creating value with it or just convenience?

Those questions matter.


Where I land with AI right now

I am not afraid of AI.

I am not rejecting it either.

I am actively learning how to use it in a way that supports my work, respects my voice, and keeps me grounded in my values.

I think that is the middle ground a lot of creators are trying to find right now.

We are all figuring this out in real time.

But here is what I know for sure:

AI will not replace thoughtful creators.

It will amplify whatever is already there.

If there is clarity, it will amplify clarity.

If there is confusion, it will amplify confusion.

If there is intention, it will amplify intention.

So the real work is not learning every tool.

The real work is staying clear about who you are and what you are creating.


Final thoughts

At the end of the day, I think AI is here to stay.

The question is not whether we use it.

The question is how we use it.

For me, the answer is simple.

I use it to think better, not to think less.

I use it to support my creativity, not replace it.

And I use it while staying deeply aware that my voice, my discernment, and my humanity are still the most important parts of what I create.

Because that is what people actually connect to.

Not perfection.

Not automation.

But presence.


If you are a creator navigating this too, I would love to hear where you are with it. Are you experimenting with AI, avoiding it, or still figuring it out?

This is a conversation we are all part of now.

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121. Podcast Marketing in 10 Minutes a Week (Yes, Really)

121. Podcast Marketing in 10 Minutes a Week (Yes, Really)

Podcast marketing can start to feel overwhelming fast.

One minute you’re excited about your show, your message, and the people you want to reach. The next minute, you’re buried under advice telling you to post constantly, master five platforms, repurpose every episode into twenty pieces of content, and somehow still maintain a consistent publishing schedule without burning out.

It’s a lot.

And for many independent podcasters, the pressure to “keep up” eventually becomes the reason they stop showing up altogether.

Not because they lack passion.
Not because their podcast isn’t valuable.
But because the marketing side of podcasting begins to feel like a second full-time job.

After more than two decades in podcasting, I’ve noticed something important: most podcasters don’t actually need more strategies, more hacks, or more complicated systems.

They need simplicity.

More specifically, they need a sustainable rhythm they can realistically maintain during busy seasons, stressful weeks, and real life.

That’s why I want to share a simple 10-minute weekly podcast marketing plan that helps creators stay visible, consistent, and connected to their audience without feeling consumed by content creation.

The goal isn’t to do everything.
The goal is to do the right things consistently.

Why Most Podcast Marketing Advice Feels Unsustainable

A lot of podcast marketing advice is built around high-volume content production.

Creators are often told they should:

  • post multiple times a day,
  • maintain a presence on every platform,
  • constantly engage online,
  • create elaborate content funnels,
  • and turn every episode into a full-scale marketing campaign.

The problem is that many podcasters are building their shows alongside careers, parenting, caregiving, ministry work, creative businesses, or simply the demands of everyday life.

Most people do not have a social media team.
They do not have a content manager.
They do not have endless hours to spend online.

And honestly, they shouldn’t need those things in order to grow a meaningful podcast.

What often leads to burnout isn’t podcasting itself. It’s the pressure to maintain unrealistic visibility.

Creators start spreading themselves too thin trying to stay relevant everywhere all at once. Eventually, the constant pressure becomes exhausting.

This is why simpler systems matter.

A sustainable podcast grows through repeated trust and consistent connection over time — not through frantic overproduction.

Visibility Matters More Than Virality

One of the biggest misconceptions in podcast marketing is the belief that every piece of content needs to perform at a high level in order to matter.

It doesn’t.

Most successful podcasts are not built from one viral moment. They are built through consistent visibility.

People subscribe to podcasts because they begin to trust the voice behind them. They return because the host feels familiar, encouraging, insightful, or helpful. That type of connection is developed gradually.

This is why consistency is more powerful than intensity.

A creator who shows up steadily over time will often build a stronger audience than someone who disappears for weeks while trying to perfect every post.

Instead of chasing constant virality, it helps to focus on maintaining a simple weekly rhythm that keeps your podcast active in people’s minds.

That rhythm can be surprisingly small.

In fact, it can take as little as ten focused minutes each week.

Step One: Choose One Episode to Spotlight

The first step is simple: choose one episode to focus on each week.

Not your entire catalog.
Not several episodes at once.
Just one.

This creates clarity both for you and for your audience.

One of the most common mistakes podcasters make is trying to promote everything equally. When every episode competes for attention at the same time, nothing stands out clearly.

Instead, select one episode that feels especially relevant right now.

Ask yourself:

  • What does my audience most need this week?
  • Which episode has the clearest takeaway?
  • What topic feels timely or helpful?
  • Which episode would make a strong first impression for new listeners?

Once you choose your focus episode, everything else becomes easier.

Your messaging becomes clearer.
Your content becomes more focused.
Your audience knows exactly what to pay attention to.

This simple shift reduces decision fatigue significantly and helps your marketing efforts feel far less scattered.

Step Two: Create One Short-Form Piece of Content

After choosing your focus episode, pull out one specific idea from it and turn it into short-form content.

That’s it.

Not ten clips.
Not a full campaign.
Just one meaningful piece of content.

This could be:

  • a short video clip,
  • a quote graphic,
  • an Instagram Reel,
  • a YouTube Short,
  • a carousel post,
  • or a thoughtful caption highlighting one takeaway from the episode.

The key is to keep it simple and intentional.

Short-form content works best when it gives people a quick glimpse into the value of your podcast without overwhelming them.

One strong insight is often more effective than trying to summarize an entire episode.

And importantly, the content does not need to be perfect.

Many podcasters spend far too much time over-editing, overthinking, and over-polishing content that never actually gets posted. Meanwhile, creators who simply show up consistently continue building trust with their audience.

Perfectionism can quietly slow momentum.

A helpful, authentic post published today is usually more valuable than a flawless one that remains unfinished in drafts for weeks.

When it comes to podcast growth, consistency tends to outperform perfection.

Step Three: Make One Personal Connection

This final step is often the most overlooked, yet it may be the most impactful.

Each week, create one personal touchpoint with your audience.

This does not need to be elaborate. In fact, simpler is usually better.

A personal touchpoint could look like:

  • sending a short email to your list,
  • posting an Instagram story,
  • replying thoughtfully to comments,
  • messaging someone who engaged with your episode,
  • or sharing a conversational post about why the episode matters.

The goal is not polished marketing language.

The goal is connection.

Podcast listeners are not only subscribing to information. They are building familiarity with a person. Over time, listeners return because they feel understood, encouraged, inspired, or connected to the host’s perspective and presence.

That connection grows in the small moments between episodes.

A warm email.
A thoughtful response.
A casual check-in.
A simple message that says:
“I made this with you in mind.”

These moments matter more than many creators realize.

People are drawn to consistency, but they stay for relationship.

Sustainable Growth Requires Sustainable Systems

One of the healthiest mindset shifts podcasters can make is understanding that growth does not require constant hustle.

Many creators unintentionally build systems they cannot maintain long term. They start strong, overwhelm themselves, disappear, and then feel discouraged for losing momentum.

A better approach is to create a workflow that supports your actual life.

That may mean:

  • simplifying your posting schedule,
  • narrowing your focus,
  • creating less content more intentionally,
  • or prioritizing connection over constant promotion.

There is nothing ineffective about simplicity.

In fact, sustainable creators often build stronger communities because they are able to remain present consistently over time.

Podcasting is not just about producing content.
It is about building trust.

And trust is built gradually through repeated, meaningful interaction.

A Simple Weekly Marketing Rhythm

Here’s the full 10-minute podcast marketing plan:

Every Week:

1. Choose one episode to spotlight
Focus your attention on a single episode with a clear takeaway.

2. Create one short-form content piece
Pull one meaningful idea from the episode and share it.

3. Make one personal connection
Reach out to your audience in a genuine, human way.

That’s the system.

Simple.
Focused.
Repeatable.

Most importantly, it’s realistic.

Final Thoughts

Podcasting should not feel like an endless race to stay visible online.

Creators who last are usually not the ones doing the most. They are the ones building rhythms they can sustain consistently without losing themselves in the process.

If podcast marketing has been feeling overwhelming lately, consider simplifying instead of adding more pressure.

Try this 10-minute system for one week and pay attention to what changes:

  • your stress level,
  • your clarity,
  • your consistency,
  • and your connection with your audience.

Sometimes the most effective strategy is not doing more.

It’s doing less — with more intention.

If you want additional support building a podcast strategy that feels aligned, sustainable, and clear, download the free Soul Podcasting Blueprint at Soul Podcasting Resources. It walks through the foundations of planning, production, promotion, and long-term podcast growth in a practical, simplified way.


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120. How to Use Your Podcast as a Lead Generation Machine with Nathalie Doremieux

120. How to Use Your Podcast as a Lead Generation Machine with Nathalie Doremieux

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If you’ve ever found yourself wondering whether your podcast is actually doing anything for your business beyond sharing your message, this conversation is one you’ll want to sit with.

In this episode, I sat down with podcast growth and monetization strategist Nathalie Doremieux to talk about a challenge so many podcasters quietly face: creating consistent, meaningful content… but not seeing real results from it. Together, we unpack what’s often missing between someone listening to your podcast and actually taking the next step to work with you—and how to begin closing that gap in a way that feels both strategic and aligned.


Who Is Nathalie Doremieux?

Nathalie Doremieux is a Podcast Growth & Monetization Strategist who helps podcasters turn engaged listeners into real business results—without needing more content, more ads, or burning themselves out in the process.

After spending over a decade working behind the scenes of 300+ online programs and memberships, Nathalie began to notice a consistent pattern: podcasts were incredibly effective at building trust and authority, but they rarely guided listeners toward meaningful next steps.

That realization shaped the work she does today.

Nathalie helps podcast hosts design simple, ethical monetization strategies that transform their episodes into opportunities for connection, conversation, and long-term growth. Her approach blends podcast strategy, audience psychology, and thoughtful use of automation and AI—always with a focus on preserving what makes podcasting powerful in the first place: genuine human connection.

Podcasting Is Not a Strategy—It’s a Tool

One of the most important distinctions Nathalie made in our conversation is this:

Podcasting itself is not a strategy. It’s a tool.

This is where many podcasters get stuck.

We start a podcast with a message, a desire to share, and a love for creating content. But without a clear strategy behind it, it’s easy to fall into a rhythm of producing episodes without understanding how those episodes connect to our broader business goals.

Nathalie emphasized that visibility alone isn’t enough. It’s not just about being heard—it’s about being heard by the right people, in a way that leads somewhere meaningful.


The Disconnect Between Listeners and Results

A major theme in this episode was the gap between engagement and action.

Many podcasters are building loyal audiences. Their listeners enjoy the content, feel connected, and continue to tune in week after week.

But then… nothing happens.

No inquiries.
No sign-ups.
No clear movement forward.

Nathalie pointed out that this happens because most podcasts don’t include a structured path for the listener. The content may be valuable, but it isn’t intentionally guiding the listener toward a next step.

And without that, the listener remains passive.


Introducing “Asset Episodes”

One of the most powerful concepts Nathalie shared is what she calls asset episodes.

These are specific, intentional episodes designed to do more than just inform or inspire. They are created with a clear purpose: to help the listener take the next step.

Instead of treating every episode the same, Nathalie encourages podcasters to think of certain episodes as strategic assets within their business.

These episodes:

  • Address a specific problem your audience is facing
  • Introduce your framework or approach
  • Help the listener understand why your solution works
  • Build trust and credibility in a focused way

She described them as being like lead magnets “on steroids.”

Unlike a traditional PDF or download, these episodes allow your audience to hear your voice, experience your thought process, and connect with your energy—all of which accelerate trust in a way static content simply can’t.


Why More Content Isn’t the Answer

One of the biggest mindset shifts from this conversation is letting go of the idea that more content will solve the problem.

If your podcast isn’t generating results, the solution isn’t:

  • More episodes
  • More interviews
  • More effort

It’s more intention.

Nathalie encouraged thinking with the end in mind and then reverse engineering your content.

Ask yourself:

  • What does my listener need to understand before they work with me?
  • What beliefs need to shift?
  • What clarity do they need about their problem or my solution?

When you create from that place, your episodes begin to serve a deeper purpose.


Rethinking Calls to Action

Another key insight from our conversation was the importance of simplicity when it comes to calls to action.

Many podcasters unintentionally overwhelm their listeners by offering too many next steps:

  • Follow me here
  • Subscribe there
  • Check the show notes
  • Join this

Instead, Nathalie recommends focusing on one clear, intentional call to action, especially within your asset episodes.

When your listener knows exactly what to do next—and why—it becomes much easier for them to move from passive listening into active engagement.


A Smarter Way to Repurpose Your Podcast

We also explored the idea of repurposing, but from a deeper, more strategic perspective.

While clips, reels, and social posts are helpful, Nathalie emphasized that your most valuable episodes—your asset episodes—should be treated like long-term business tools.

That means:

  • Sharing them consistently over time
  • Including them in your email nurture sequences
  • Using them as part of your lead generation strategy
  • Revisiting and promoting them regularly

Instead of thinking of your episodes as having a short lifespan, you begin to see them as ongoing assets that continue to serve your business.


Using AI to Deepen Connection (Not Replace It)

One of the more innovative parts of our conversation was how Nathalie is using AI to enhance—not replace—the human connection in podcasting.

She shared how AI can be used to:

  • Analyze an episode
  • Ask listeners a few thoughtful questions
  • Provide personalized responses or insights based on where they are

This creates a more interactive experience for the listener—one where they feel seen and understood, rather than just spoken to.

What stood out most is that the goal isn’t automation for the sake of efficiency.

It’s about creating a bridge—a way for listeners who are ready to engage to move forward in a more meaningful, personalized way.


You Don’t Need More Downloads

Perhaps one of the most freeing takeaways from this conversation is this:

You don’t need a large audience to see results from your podcast.

You need the right people.

When your message is clear, your episodes are intentional, and your strategy is aligned, even a small number of listeners can lead to meaningful connections and opportunities.

It’s not about reaching everyone.

It’s about reaching the people who are ready.


How to Reach Nathalie Doremieux

If this conversation resonated with you and you’re ready to think more strategically about your podcast, Nathalie offers tools and insights to help you bridge the gap between listeners and real business growth.

You can connect with Nathalie here:

Nathalie also offers tools designed to help you turn your podcast episodes into lead-generating assets, using thoughtful strategy and smart automation.


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119. Not Everyone Should Start a Podcast in 2026 (And That’s Okay)

119. Not Everyone Should Start a Podcast in 2026 (And That’s Okay)

Podcasting is still one of the most powerful ways to build authority, deepen trust, and create meaningful connection online. But let’s be honest for a moment:

Not everyone should start a podcast in 2026.

That may sound surprising coming from someone who loves podcasting and has been in this space for years, but it’s the truth. I care more about helping people build sustainable, strategic platforms than pushing hype.

There are plenty of voices online telling you to “just start a podcast” as if it’s a magic solution for visibility, income, and influence. But podcasting is not a shortcut. It is not instant growth. It is not effortless attention.

Podcasting can be incredible—but only when it aligns with who you are, how you communicate, and what you’re truly trying to build.

So before you invest time, money, and energy into launching a show, let’s talk honestly about whether podcasting is right for you.


Podcasting Is Powerful—But It’s Slow Media

One of the biggest misconceptions about podcasting is that it creates fast traction.

Usually, it doesn’t.

Podcasting is what I call slow media. It tends to build steadily over time rather than spike overnight. While short-form platforms often reward trends, novelty, and fast-moving content, podcasts grow through consistency and trust.

That means:

  • Listeners discover you gradually
  • Relationships deepen over time
  • Authority compounds episode by episode
  • Results often come later, not immediately

If you’re looking for instant virality or fast audience growth, podcasting may frustrate you.

That doesn’t mean podcasting is ineffective. Quite the opposite.

It means podcasting rewards patience.

If you can embrace the long game, it can become one of the strongest assets in your business or brand.


If You Hate Long-Form Communication, Pause First

Podcasting is a spoken medium. That sounds obvious, but many people overlook what it actually requires.

You’ll need to enjoy—or at least tolerate—long-form communication.

That might mean:

  • Teaching ideas clearly
  • Telling stories
  • Interviewing guests
  • Thinking out loud
  • Holding attention through voice alone

If you dislike hearing your own voice, feel drained by explaining concepts, or strongly prefer writing over speaking, podcasting may not be your best lane.

And that’s okay.

There are many excellent ways to build authority online:

  • Writing newsletters
  • Blogging
  • YouTube tutorials
  • Instagram content
  • Courses
  • Communities

Podcasting is one medium—not the only medium.

Choose the platform that fits your strengths rather than forcing yourself into one that doesn’t.


You Need More Than 10 Episode Ideas

Another common mistake people make is starting a podcast based on a temporary burst of excitement.

They have enough energy for:

  • Episode 1
  • Episode 2
  • Maybe Episode 7

Then they stall.

Why? Because podcasting is not just about what you can say next week.

It’s about what conversation you’re willing to lead for years.

A podcast becomes a body of work. It reflects your ideas, values, expertise, and consistency over time.

Before you start, ask yourself:

  • Can I talk about this topic for the next two years?
  • Does this subject naturally generate more ideas?
  • Am I still curious about it long-term?
  • Is this connected to my real life or work?

When your topic grows from lived experience, service, expertise, or genuine passion, sustainability becomes much easier.


Who Should Start a Podcast in 2026?

Now let’s talk about who podcasting can be especially powerful for.

1. Thought Leaders

If you have a framework, perspective, method, or message that needs depth, podcasting is excellent.

Some ideas require more than a 30-second reel.

Podcasting gives you space to:

  • Explain nuance
  • Build original thought
  • Share stories behind your ideas
  • Lead meaningful conversations
  • Establish intellectual authority

If you want to be known for what you think—not just how you look or what trends you follow—podcasting is valuable.


2. Coaches and Service Providers

If your business depends on trust, podcasting can be gold.

Why?

Because listening is intimate.

When someone hears your voice weekly while driving, walking, cooking, or working, trust builds naturally.

They begin to understand:

  • How you think
  • What you value
  • How you solve problems
  • Whether they resonate with your style

That kind of relationship often leads to better clients, stronger referrals, and warmer leads.


3. Creators Building Intellectual Property

If you want to write a book, teach a course, create a signature framework, or become a speaker, podcasting is powerful preparation.

Every episode helps you refine your message.

You learn:

  • Which ideas resonate
  • How to explain concepts clearly
  • How to tell stories effectively
  • How to speak spontaneously
  • How to develop confidence publicly

In many ways, podcasting becomes rehearsal for larger opportunities.


The Hidden Requirement: Emotional Stamina

This is the part people rarely talk about.

Podcasting requires emotional stamina.

There may be times when you publish an episode and receive:

  • No comments
  • Very few downloads
  • Minimal feedback
  • Silence

That silence can feel personal if you let it.

You may wonder:

  • Is anyone listening?
  • Am I wasting my time?
  • Does this matter?
  • Should I quit?

This is where many creators stop.

But growth often happens quietly before it becomes visible.

People may be listening consistently without commenting. Someone may be binging episodes privately. A future client may be watching for months before reaching out.

Podcasting teaches resilience because rewards are not always immediate.

If you need instant validation every time you post, this medium can feel hard.


Strategy Matters More Than Random Talking

Another truth: successful podcasts are rarely random.

You don’t need perfection. You don’t need a radio voice. You don’t need celebrity guests.

But you do need direction.

Ask yourself:

  • What is this show about?
  • Who is it for?
  • Why does it exist?
  • What transformation does it offer?
  • How does it connect to my larger goals?

Without strategy, podcasting can become scattered content creation that drains energy.

With strategy, each episode becomes an asset.


Consistency Builds Trust

Consistency does not mean burning yourself out.

It means creating a rhythm your audience can trust.

That might be:

  • Weekly
  • Bi-weekly
  • Monthly

The exact frequency matters less than reliability.

If listeners know you show up regularly, trust grows.

Choose a pace you can sustain in real life.

Too many people launch with unrealistic intensity, then disappear. Slow and steady often wins.


Ask a Better Question

Instead of asking:

Should I start a podcast?

Ask:

  • Do I want to build authority?
  • Am I willing to grow slowly?
  • Do I enjoy speaking and teaching?
  • Can I commit consistently?
  • Do I have a message worth developing long-term?

That’s the real decision.

If you are chasing attention alone, podcasting may frustrate you.

If you are building credibility, trust, and substance, podcasting can serve you beautifully.


What If Podcasting Isn’t Right for You?

Then you’ve learned something valuable.

Not starting the wrong project is just as important as starting the right one.

You might be better suited for:

  • A YouTube channel
  • A newsletter
  • Blogging
  • Public speaking
  • Consulting content
  • Social media thought leadership

There is no shame in choosing the medium that matches your wiring.

The goal is not to have a podcast.

The goal is to communicate effectively and build something meaningful.


Final Thoughts

Podcasting in 2026 still matters deeply—but it favors people who understand what it really is.

It is:

  • A trust-building medium
  • A long-term authority tool
  • A platform for thoughtful voices
  • A discipline of consistency
  • A body of work built over time

It is not a shortcut.

If that reality energizes you rather than discourages you, podcasting may be exactly right for you.

If it doesn’t, there are other smart paths forward.

And that’s okay too.

Choose the platform that fits your strengths, your message, and the life you actually want to live.

Because the best strategy is not doing what everyone else is doing.

It’s building what you can sustain.


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118: Holding Space Behind the Mic: Creating Safe Guest Conversations with Tonya Pieske

118: Holding Space Behind the Mic: Creating Safe Guest Conversations with Tonya Pieske

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What does it really mean to create a safe conversation on a podcast?

In a world where everyone seems to be chasing clips, downloads, and viral moments, it’s easy to forget that podcasting is still one of the most intimate forms of media we have. A voice in someone’s ear. A story shared in real time. A human being trusting another human being enough to open up.

That’s why this recent conversation with Tonya Pieske felt so important.

Tonya is doing something many podcasters overlook: she’s treating storytelling with care. Her show uses a trauma-informed process with guests so that sharing personal stories becomes a grounded, consensual, and emotionally safe experience. Instead of treating people like content, she treats them like people first.

And honestly? That’s the kind of podcasting more of us need.

Who is Tonya Pieske?

Tonya Pieske is a musician, writer, and producer based in Portland, Oregon.

With How to Tell Someone, Tonya blends her lived experience with CPTSD and her background in fostering psychological safety through her nonprofit work. She uses a trauma-informed process with each guest to ensure storytelling is safe, grounded, and consensual.

Her work on the show centers nuance and authenticity, offering a rare space for people to share the stories that shaped them.

She also brings a creative producer’s ear to the podcast, scoring episodes with original music and creating a cinematic listening experience that supports the emotional depth of each story.


Why This Conversation Matters Right Now

Podcasting has grown fast. That’s a beautiful thing.

More voices. More perspectives. More people realizing they don’t need permission to start speaking.

But with growth comes temptation.

It becomes easy to think:

  • How can I get bigger guests?
  • How can I get more shocking stories?
  • How can I make clips that perform?
  • How can I publish faster?

None of those questions are inherently wrong. But they can distract us from the better questions:

  • How can I make my guests feel seen?
  • How can I listen deeply?
  • How can I create trust?
  • How can I steward someone else’s story responsibly?

That’s where Tonya’s message lands with power.

She reminded us that podcasting isn’t just production. It’s presence.


What “Holding Space” Actually Means

“Hold space” can sound like one of those trendy phrases people throw around without meaning.

But in podcasting, it matters.

Holding space means creating an environment where someone feels emotionally safe enough to be honest.

It means:

  • Not rushing them
  • Not forcing vulnerability
  • Not interrupting sacred moments
  • Not sensationalizing pain
  • Not making their story about your platform

It means you, as the host, become steady.

You don’t need to fix them. You don’t need to impress them. You don’t need to dominate the conversation.

You need to be present.

That kind of hosting is powerful because listeners can feel it.

They know when a guest feels safe.
They know when a conversation is performative.
They know when something real is happening.


The Responsibility of Interviewing Real Humans

One of the strongest points Tonya made was this:

Not everyone who has a story is a professional storyteller.

That matters.

Many guests are not media-trained. They may be sharing painful memories, life transitions, failures, grief, trauma, or vulnerable truths for the first time publicly.

That means the host carries responsibility.

If you invite someone to open up, you should be prepared to handle what comes with that.

Too many hosts ask deep questions… then emotionally disappear.

They want tears but don’t know what to do with tenderness.

They want honesty but don’t know how to respond with care.

They want the moment—but not the weight of the moment.

That’s not leadership behind the mic.

That’s extraction.

And your audience can feel the difference.


How to Create Safe Guest Conversations

If you’re interviewing guests on your podcast, here are practical ways to lead with care:

1. Give Permission, Not Pressure

Instead of assuming someone must answer everything, offer choice.

Say things like:

  • “Only share what feels comfortable.”
  • “We can skip that if needed.”
  • “Take your time.”
  • “You don’t have to answer that.”

Freedom creates better conversations than pressure ever will.


2. Send Questions in Advance

Some guests process by thinking ahead. Others calm their nervous system when they know what’s coming.

Sending themes or sample questions can reduce anxiety and increase depth.

Surprise is overrated.

Safety is underrated.


3. Warm Up Before Recording

Don’t hit record instantly like you’re starting a machine.

Talk first.

Ask how they’re doing. Laugh a little. Let the body settle.

Real conversations often begin before the official interview starts.


4. Listen for Emotion, Not Just Soundbites

Many hosts are waiting for their next question instead of listening.

Don’t just listen for facts.

Listen for:

  • shifts in tone
  • hesitation
  • pain
  • excitement
  • relief
  • meaning

Sometimes the real conversation is hiding in one sentence that needs a gentle follow-up.


5. Know When Not to Push

If someone gets quiet, shaky, distant, or overwhelmed, you don’t always need to “go deeper.”

Sometimes wisdom is knowing when to move on.

Not every door must be opened publicly.


Podcasting Is Not Content Churn

One phrase from this conversation stood out: content churn.

That endless machine of producing for producing’s sake.

Post more. Clip more. Publish more. React more.

But if your process strips away humanity, what are you building?

Podcasting can be strategic and soulful.

You can care about growth and care about people.

You can be professional and compassionate.

The best brands of the future won’t just be louder.

They’ll be more human.


Tonya’s One-Woman Studio Wisdom

I also loved hearing Tonya talk about building her show independently.

She produces her own audio, scores the episodes with music, edits long-form interviews, and creates cinematic soundscapes.

That’s real creative labor.

And her honesty was refreshing: it takes longer than you think.

Every podcaster needs to hear that.

Too many people assume everyone else is moving effortlessly.

They’re not.

Good podcasting takes time, intention, editing, thoughtfulness, and energy.

So if your process feels slower than expected, you’re normal.

If your first episodes take forever, you’re normal.

If you’re learning as you go, you’re normal.


Build a Podcast Around Your Capacity

Another gem from Tonya: know your capacity.

She shared that weekly podcasting doesn’t fit her life—and that’s okay.

This is freedom many creators need to hear.

You do not need to copy someone else’s cadence.

You can:

  • publish seasons
  • batch record
  • release monthly
  • take breaks
  • create shorter formats
  • slow down intentionally

Consistency matters, yes.

But sustainable consistency matters more.

A burnt-out podcaster with a schedule is still burnt out.

Build around your real life.


If You’re a Faith-Driven or Purpose-Led Host

For many of us, podcasting is ministry, mission, service, or calling.

That means people are not metrics.

They are souls. Stories. Lives.

When someone trusts you enough to share pain, growth, joy, or truth—you’ve been given stewardship.

Treat that with reverence.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do as a host is not preach louder or perform harder.

Sometimes it’s listening well.


Questions to Ask Yourself Before Your Next Interview

Before you hit record again, ask:

  • Does this guest feel safe with me?
  • Am I trying to get content or create connection?
  • Have I prepared emotionally, not just technically?
  • Can I stay present if the conversation gets real?
  • Am I honoring the person, not just the episode?

Those questions can transform your show.


Final Encouragement

You don’t need the fanciest microphone to become a memorable host.

You don’t need celebrity guests.

You don’t need controversy.

You need care.

You need curiosity.

You need emotional presence.

You need integrity behind the mic.

Because long after people forget titles and thumbnails, they remember how a conversation made them feel.

And when guests feel safe, listeners feel it too.

That’s the kind of podcasting that lasts.


Reach out to Tonya

In this conversation with Tonya Pieske, we explore trauma-informed storytelling, ethical interviewing, creative DIY podcasting, and how to help guests share their stories safely and meaningfully.

If you’re building a podcast with purpose—not just noise—this episode is for you.

Listen to Tonya’s podcast, How To Tell Someone, and join her over on Substack: https://www.howtotellsomeone.com/


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